For every relationship stage, not just the honeymoon phase.
DateRhythm is a relationship app that helps you plan date nights, get AI relationship coaching, and learn from expert-designed lessons. It includes a shared couples calendar with 137 curated date ideas across 7 categories, an always-available AI coach personalised to your relationship, weekly lessons informed by the Gottman Institute and other leading research, and relationship growth tracking via a Rhythm Score. DateRhythm works for every stage of dating, from first dates to long-term partnerships. Available free on iOS.
DateRhythm gives your relationship a standing date: a shared calendar, 137 curated date ideas, an AI relationship coach, and weekly challenges that keep you close.
Free to download on the App Store.
Plan intentional date nights, get personalised coaching, and grow together with expert lessons designed for every stage of your relationship.
A shared calendar with availability, to-dos, and gentle reminders. Your next date sits on the lock screen with a countdown, so neither of you can cancel.
Whether you are just starting to date, looking to deepen your bond, or keeping a long-term relationship thriving, DateRhythm has the tools you need.
A shared calendar with 137 curated date ideas across 7 categories. Swipe to match on ideas with your partner, and let AI suggest dates based on your preferences and budget.
An AI relationship coach available any time, personalised to your relationship. Covers communication, trust, conflict, finances, and more. Proactive nudges when you might need support.
Opt-in intimacy features let you privately log how you feel and signal desire to your partner in a gentle, respectful way. Fully encrypted, fully private.
Weekly expert-designed lessons with a 4-step structure: Learn, Reflect, Practice, Apply. Daily discovery questions and hands-on challenges keep you growing as a team.
Your Rhythm tracks relationship health across four factors. Earn badges, build streaks, and get a monthly overview with AI-generated insights on your progress.
Streaks reward consistency, badges celebrate milestones, and guided journeys give you a structured path through the topics that matter most to your relationship.
137 curated date ideas across 7 categories, from a slow food picnic to a pottery class. Swipe through them with your partner, and when you both say yes the date lands on your shared calendar with a gentle reminder. No more "I don't mind, you pick".
Research from the National Marriage Project at UVA found that couples who have regular date nights are 3.5x more likely to report being "very happy" in their relationship.
Talk to Harmony about communication, trust, conflict, and intimacy. Private, personal guidance shaped by your answers and your history together, grounded in the Gottman Method and attachment theory. Your Rhythm Score shows the relationship growing week by week.
The Gottman Institute found that the average couple waits 6 years before seeking help for relationship problems. Your coach is here from day one.
A new expert lesson unlocks every week, built on established relationship science. Weekly challenges and daily questions you answer together, guided journeys, badges and streaks that keep you going. Small, steady habits for every stage, from first year to twenty.
DateRhythm draws on decades of relationship research, not guesswork. The coaching, lessons, and prompts are grounded in the Gottman Method, attachment theory, positive psychology, the 5 Love Languages, and Self-Determination Theory.
DateRhythm offers guidance and education. It is not therapy or a substitute for professional care.
Just 3 simple steps to start strengthening your relationship.
Answer a few questions about your relationship so the app can personalise your experience.
Share your invite code to unlock shared calendars, date matching, and joint progress tracking.
Whether you are newly dating or have been together for years, DateRhythm gives you the structure, guidance, and inspiration to make your relationship the best it can be.
DateRhythm is an AI-powered relationship coaching app that helps you plan date nights, get personalised relationship guidance, and learn from expert-designed lessons. It works for every stage of dating, from first dates to long-term partnerships.
DateRhythm is for anyone who wants to be more intentional about their relationships. Whether you are casually dating, in a serious relationship, or married, the app adapts to your stage. You can use it solo or connect with a partner for the full shared experience.
DateRhythm's features are informed by leading relationship science, including research from the Gottman Institute (40+ years studying what makes relationships succeed), the Harvard Study of Adult Development (the longest-running study of human happiness), Emotionally Focused Therapy (with 70-75% recovery rates for distressed couples in clinical settings), and the National Marriage Project at the University of Virginia. Our coaching draws on these frameworks alongside positive psychology and attachment research. We say "informed by" because we apply these principles thoughtfully in our product design, not because these institutions endorse DateRhythm directly.
Absolutely. DateRhythm uses Firebase Authentication and Firestore with strict security rules. Sensitive features like intimacy tracking are AES-encrypted on device before being stored. We never sell your data and you can delete your account at any time.
Free users get access to the shared calendar, date ideas, weekly lessons, daily questions, and limited coach messages. Premium unlocks unlimited coaching, relationship insights (Rhythm, weekly insights, monthly overview), guided journeys, and advanced features like connection balance tracking.
The AI coach is powered by a large language model with full personalisation context: your onboarding survey answers, relationship details, date history, lesson progress, and Rhythm. It adapts its tone based on your relationship stage and covers 10 key topics including communication, trust, conflict, and finances.
Yes. You can browse date ideas, complete lessons, use the AI coach, answer daily questions, and track your personal growth. Partner connection unlocks shared features like mutual calendars, date matching, and joint progress, but the app is fully usable solo.
Some things are just for the two of you. Coach conversations stay private to you, intimacy notes are encrypted on your device so only you can read them, and you can lock the whole app behind Face ID.